Will You Be My Valentine: Creative Way to Ask

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Valentine’s Day: the one day a year where we make a big fuss about love and chocolate (as if we don’t eat chocolate every other day of the year). But hey, why not lean into it and do something fun and borderline over-the-top to remind your husband you’re not just roommates who split the Costco bill?

Enter this DIY Valentine’s surprise—a clever way to ask your husband, boyfriend, or whoever you’ve somehow tricked into loving you to officially be your Valentine. Why ask? Because it’s more fun than staring at him blankly on the 14th while he wonders if you bought his favorite snacks. This idea is interactive, creative, and just dramatic enough to keep things interesting. Plus, it’s done in his truck(vehicular-mobile), so you’re literally meeting him in his natural habitat. Genius, right?

Let’s dive into the steps to pull this off and make him question why he didn’t think of this himself.

What You’ll Need

Because this isn’t Pinterest where we claim you already have everything at home, here’s a realistic list of things you’ll need:
• Sticky notes or paper for clues (hearts, pink, and red,).- I found a pack at local craft store- DOLLAR tree will even have.
• String or ribbon to attach notes/photos (or whatever tangled Christmas ribbon is still lying around). – These envelopes are from Hobby Lobby
• His favorite snacks or candy- to put in glovebox.•
• A Valentine’s card or handwritten note with the final “ask.”

Optional: A playlist of sappy love songs you can queue up while he discovers the surprise, because why not make it feel like a romcom?

Step-by-Step Guide

Step 1: The Setup

Choose his truckYou’ll need uninterrupted time for this, so wait until he’s distracted—like watching sports or looking for a charger that’s literally right in front of him.

Step 2: “Pull Me” Tab

Start with the sun visor. Write “Pull Me” on a cute note and stick it where he’ll see it first. Nothing says love like forcing him to engage with a scavenger hunt before his morning coffee.

Step 3: The Mirror Clue

Behind the visor, place another note that says, “Slide Me” (because men love instructions). When he slides the mirror open, he’ll find your next genius clue: “Check the Glove Box.” Don’t forget to decorate it with heart stickers, because subtlety is overrated. The more extra the better! #Festive

Step 4: The Glove Box Surprise

In the glove box, place his favorite snacks, drinks- whatever(or yours, because sharing is caring). Add a handwritten card that asks, “Will you be my Valentine?” You could get creative here, like writing, “Do you really think you’re going to find someone better? Circle yes or yes.”

Step 5: Final Touches

Sprinkle in some extra cuteness—like Polaroid pictures of your most photogenic moments, a ribbon, or even a mini heart garland. It’s Valentine’s Day; there’s no such thing as “too much.”

Why This DIY is Perfect for Valentine’s Day

Look, you could buy a card at Target, but where’s the fun in that? This DIY is about putting in just enough effort to make him think you’ve gone above and beyond. Plus, it’s interactive—he gets to “pull,” “slide,” and “check” things, which will make him feel like he’s on a mission (and let’s be honest, men love missions).

This idea is also genius because it doesn’t involve glitter (aka the herpes of craft supplies) or anything overly sentimental. It’s cute, thoughtful, and just extra enough to remind him how lucky he is to have you.

Tips for Personalizing the Surprise
• Throw in Some Humor: If he’s got a sarcastic streak, write clues like, “Pull me—no, not like that. Just pull the visor, Sherlock.”
• Customize the Snacks: Swap candy for his true loves—jerky, trail mix, or whatever weird snack combo he’s currently obsessed with.
• Add a Tease: Include a mini note that says, “By the way, the real gift is me.” Classic.
• Make It a Movie Moment: Play some cheesy romcom music when he finds the final clue. Bonus points if you dramatically say, “So, will you be my Valentine?” in your best over-the-top voice.

Common Questions & Answers

Q: What if he doesn’t “get it”?
A: If your husband can’t follow three simple steps, I can’t help you. But maybe use bigger font and simpler words.

Q: Can I use this idea for someone other than my husband?
A: Absolutely. Boyfriend, best friend, dog sitter—it works for anyone who appreciates effort.

Q: What if I’m on a budget?
A: Use what you have at home. Sticky notes, leftover holiday candy, and a Sharpie will get the job done. Just don’t skimp on the humor—that’s free!

Looking for more February ideas? Don’t forget to check out my February Bucket List blog post for fun and festive activities to try this season. From date night ideas to family-friendly crafts, it’s packed with inspiration to make the most of this love-filled month.

And there you have it—a foolproof way to ask your husband/partner to be your Valentine that’s cute, clever, and just the right amount of ridiculous. This DIY isn’t just a gift; it’s an experience—and let’s be honest, experiences are what Instagram stories are made for.

If you try this, don’t forget to share your version with me on social media @AshtonSedita. I’d love to see how you make it your own. Follow me for more festive DIYs and sarcastic takes on crafting. Let’s make this Valentine’s Day one to remember—for better or for hilariously awkward reactions.

Ashton Sedita

xoxoxo